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Is it normal to be afraid to start transition? (Some\ndays, I'm feeling confident and others days I'm afraid about details like\npassing, my size 1.87m, and pontential poor HRT effect. My feelings are\nchanging a lot one day to another).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u6765\u81ea <https:\/\/www.quora.com\/Is-it-normal-to-be-afraid-to-start-transition-Some-days-Im-feeling-confident-and-others-days-Im-afraid-about-details-like-passing-my-size-1-87m-and-pontential-poor-HRT-effect-My-feelings-are-changing-a-lot-one-day-to-another<\/a>> <\/p>\n\n\n\n A1\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n Transition scared the pants off of me (get it???).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Even though I knew it was absolutely the right thing\nto do, I was incredibly nervous about so much of it. Even knowing it\u2019s the\ncorrect path, it\u2019s still very much a leap of faith or that invisible bridge\nfrom Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s also that cruel thing that the most trouble\nand resistance you\u2019ll face happens up front when you\u2019re newest to it. A few\nyears in when you\u2019re battle-hardened and can handle anything? Very little comes\nup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But know that many of us took the leap. Some people\nfind it goes worse than they expected. Some find it goes better. But very few\nthink it wasn\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u6765\u81ea <https:\/\/www.quora.com\/Is-it-normal-to-be-afraid-to-start-transition-Some-days-Im-feeling-confident-and-others-days-Im-afraid-about-details-like-passing-my-size-1-87m-and-pontential-poor-HRT-effect-My-feelings-are-changing-a-lot-one-day-to-another<\/a>> <\/p>\n\n\n\n A2\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thanks for the A2A. I hope my answer is helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yes, fear is normal. And if transition didn\u2019t scare\nyou, I\u2019d say you were kidding yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. Once you start transition (and are\ntruly trans), there is great exhilaration because we\u2019re finally starting to\nrelease that burden that has weighed upon us. And while transition is never\neasy and can be incredibly disruptive to family life, relationships with\nfriends and coworkers, career, and home, it almost always is much better,\neasier, and more successful than our pre-transition fears tell us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Life without gender dysphoria is a fucking mind trip\nfor anyone who grew up with it. To suddenly live in your own skin. To suddenly\nbe yourself. You have to learn to skills, learn how to relax, learn how to be\nwithout pretending anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Passing almost always goes better than we expect. The\nsimple truth is that in day-to-day life, people follow our lead when they\ngender us, and no single thing will destroy that. I have a friend who is 6\u20323\u2033\nand heavy, and if you went up and down the checklists we make for ourselves,\nyou could find any number of challenges she must face to \u201cpass\u201d as cis. But she\njust vibes female.<\/p>\n\n\n\n HRT can have unexpectedly successful or disappointing\nresults. They say look to your immediate family, but also look to your extended\nfamily. My body is more like my aunt\u2019s than my mother\u2019s, for example. HRT will\nalso generally address most of your body hair. I have friends who had the\nproverbial chest carpet pre-transition, and HRT addressed all of it. No hair\nremoval required. (Legs and arms can still be a thing, but cis women have to\ndeal with that as well when living to today\u2019s beauty standards.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Electrolysis is a life changer. Changing the texture\nof your face is huge, because it eliminates the need to use foundation makeup\njust to look fem. Finding an excellent electroygist is essential. (If you have\ndark hair and fair skin, you can start with laser and get a rapid jump on\nthings.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, 1.87m is not that tall. Look at who\u2019s taller\nthan you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [I had several pictures that disappeared. I will try\nto add some now.]<\/p>\n\n\n\n